‘Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.’
Wayne Dyer

As a single straight women, I have questioned is the dating world a man’s world?
We wait for them to make every first move, ask for our number, for a date, to share how they feel, to ask us for commitment. Why is it always on their terms?

I believe in equality, we are all human beings, we can all feel love in the same way, whether we are a man, women, gay, straight, transgender, our emotions and feelings unite us.

I am not scared to make the first move or put myself out there. Are you? If you fancy someone or have a crush, take control and go after what you want. Live with no regrets and pursue your dreams and happiness in every aspect of your life.

What holds us back with making the first move? For me, at first, it’s because I had an idea in my head of a fairy tale where I get romantically swept off my feet with an overwhelming feeling of being special and wanted. Would you feel any less special or wanted if you made the first move but the end result was the same?

Nothing is more attractive than self confidence. Start that conversation, send that text, make that call…

‘The biggest risk is not taking any risks’
Mark Zuckerberg

It will probably always be a mans world to you if you allow it to be.